PERSEPSI EMERGING ADULTHOOD TENTANG HUBUNGAN TANPA STATUS (HTS)
Abstract
Fenomena hubungan tanpa status (HTS) menjadi semakin populer di kalangan emerging adulthood yang cenderung memilih HTS dibandingkan hubungan yang serius. Penelitian sebelumnya telah memberikan definisi yang beragam mengenai HTS sehingga membentuk batasan yang kabur antara pertemanan, HTS, dan hubungan berpacaran. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk mengeksplorasi persepsi dan pengertian emerging adulthood di Indonesia terkait HTS. Penelitian ini menggunakan pendekatan kualitatif yang melibatkan tujuh partisipan, terdiri dari empat perempuan dan tiga laki-laki dengan usia 19-21 tahun. Partisipan dipilih melalui purposive sampling, kemudian data dikumpulkan menggunakan open-ended questionnaire dan semi-structured interview dengan desain penelitian studi kasus instrumental. Data dianalisis dengan metode coding, yaitu proses kategorisasi dari data kualitatif. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa definisi dan dampak masing-masing partisipan terkait HTS mempengaruhi pandangan mereka terhadap HTS itu sendiri. Sebagian emerging adulthood mendefinisikan HTS sebagai hubungan tanpa tuntutan tanpa ada label relasi dan durasi yang pasti. Pandangan emerging adulthood terhadap HTS terbagi menjadi dua, yaitu positif dan negatif. Emerging adulthood dengan pandangan positif cenderung memilih untuk menjalani HTS karena mendapatkan afeksi tanpa tuntutan dari pasangan yang berarti mendukung persepsi bahwa hubungan serius tidak lagi menjadi tujuan akhir relasi romantis dan mengabaikan norma agama serta nilai sosial. Sebaliknya, mereka dengan pandangan negatif cenderung tidak akan menjalani HTS karena menimbulkan kerugian, yaitu dampak positif berupa kasih sayang yang didapat tanpa keseriusan dan komitmen serta dampak negatif seperti munculnya kecemasan. Penelitian selanjutnya dapat memperdalam analisis mengenai latar belakang partisipan sebagai salah satu aspek yang mempengaruhi pandangan terhadap HTS.
Kata kunci: emerging adulthood; hubungan tanpa status; HTS; pandangan; persepsi
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